Sexism From The Beginning

Walking into my first game development class at RIT, I was ready to immerse myself in the world I’d always dreamed of: designing and creating games. But as one of the only Black women in the room, I quickly realized I would have to fight for my voice to be heard.

Early on, I noticed a pattern. My ideas were ignored until a male classmate echoed them. Tasks were divided in ways that sidelined me from the technical work, and my capabilities were questioned outright. One classmate, in particular, repeatedly undermined me during a group project. He dismissed my contributions, rewrote my code without asking, and even told me, “You should stick to the easier stuff.” What could have been a simple group assignment turned into a toxic experience that left me questioning my place in the class. But then, something unexpected happened: my professor, a strong and inspiring woman, stepped in.

My professor noticed what was happening and didn’t let it slide. She called me aside to ask about the dynamics in the group and, after hearing my side, assured me she would handle the situation. When the project was graded, my professor made her stance clear. I passed the assignment with flying colors, recognized for the work I had done and the challenges I had faced. My classmate? He failed. It wasn’t just about the grade—it was a statement that his behavior was unacceptable and had no place in her classroom or the industry. Her actions left a profound impact on me. For the first time in that class, I felt seen and validated. Her support reminded me that I wasn’t alone and that there were people willing to fight for fairness and respect.

That moment taught me more than any lecture ever could. It showed me the importance of allies, especially in spaces where diversity is lacking. It also reinforced the value of speaking up and standing firm, even in the face of adversity. I carried those lessons with me, using them as motivation to work even harder and to mentor others facing similar challenges. My professor’s example inspired me to be an advocate, not just for myself but for others, ensuring that no one feels overlooked or undervalued.

Now, as I continue my journey in game development, I’m more committed than ever to creating spaces where everyone can thrive. Whether it’s through my work, my mentorship, or the communities I contribute to, I want to honor the support I received and pay it forward. To the educators, mentors, and allies who stand up for students: thank you. Your actions have ripple effects far beyond the classroom, shaping not just careers but lives.

Game development is for everyone, and with people like my professor leading the way, I know we’re moving toward a more inclusive future. 🎮✨